In order for a shaft to load properly and give the maximum propulsion, the ratio of weight from the club head to the back end of the shaft must be balanced for the stiffness of that shaft. This will vary from club to club and is somewhat unique to each individual. However if you have a baseline for the amount of back weight to work from, you can then experiment with how much weight to add to the head of the club until it creates the feeling you are looking for.
Once you've played with a club that is properly back weighted for you, it will never feel the same way to go back to swinging a club that is out of balance. If you enjoy feeling the most out of your clubs, you should try experimenting with the drills in your practice to give you the "softest hands" for maximum feel.